When I’m dating in malls with him after I start this relationship, I’m busy seeing other couple characteristic.. Uhm, okay, I mean their appearance (back to the comparing thing).
Then I start asking, “why this man is being with this woman? Such as when I saw one sweet and kind of nerdy man being with a gothic and wild-appeared woman”.. Then on the other opportunity, I saw the opposite couple. Sometimes I would like to mix’n’match them, maybe they’ll look more “matching”.
Today my friend just told me her bf for 1.5years almost cheating on her. Then I thought she will be a perfect match for my office friend, which I know he’s not gonna cheat on her. But she said, she is already “mentok” with this bastard guy.
Then its all made me think.. Do God playing role in this matchmaking thing? Or its just we -human, that always falling in love too deep with our comfort zone? Is true love real? How can we love someone who’s hurting us again and again?
I don’t get it!!!!
Then I remember my past relationship, with another bastard guy, and start memorizing what sorta feeling I have back then, my answer is: hormones.
Its this fluid and impulse in our body that always makes us falling to toxic guy more than easy-breezy-good guy.
Its this shock alert which makes us feel “erotic” when toxic guy touch us, or even just whisper quietly to us..
Oh well, so I make conclusion, that God helped us to meet our match, but it is our liberty to choose whether we will hang-on for this guy or not.
So, your life, your choice!